edit: the post that’s been described in private emails to me as, “right on the money, but I hope Ron doesn’t see it” has been pulled. I slept on it. Clever googlers might try google cache but let it go.
Here’s the deal: it’s not worth it. I like Ron and the COW.
Ron at the COW: “Take some time off. Please don’t take your business regrets out on your volunteers.
I remain sorry for your loss”.